Birth order may affects in the personality
of people and their behavior in families and their position in the society.
According to forer , the oldest child have limited period to view as a child because his parents will have another child . on the other hand , the only child has unlimited period to view as a child "forer" .I agree with forer idea and it match me in many thing .I think when the parents have new child they will change their manner with the old child because they also have to take care of the new child .So the oldest child will emphasis to being parental .however , the only child has unlimited time to feel as a child Because he is only child for his parent nobody will share him and no reason to change his feeling to be a child with his parents relationship. For example, my old brother when my parents have new Child actually he tried to act as a parental .but my uncle has only child, his child still view himself as a child
Because
he does not have sibling.
This is always an interesting topic because depending on the family dynamic there are so many different outcomes. For instance, I am a middle child, but I am also the only girl. Therefore, I have some typical middle child characteristics, but I was always the recipient of some attention because I was the only girl. The oldest sibling always takes the worst, it seems to me.
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