Heroes

        In this article 'people who make changes 'written by Ted Tollefson , say that heroes have to reflect who we are as  in our society and community. However, people should not expect that heroes are perfect. We should look for our heroes more deeply and knowing their good and bad. In addition, tollefson says that people change their heroes as the time pass.

         In this article "people who make changes" Ted Tollefson writes "people change their heroes as the time pass". The author`s point is that we change our heroes by the time because of our self-development. By the time we become older, we change our heroes.

       In my experience, each place in our life has its hero and many factors effects for changing our heroes .we change our heroes in different age, because our thinking and our judgment on the heroes are changing .I think choosing people their heroes depend on their interest .When the people change their interest, they will change their heroes. Also, I think children have heroes different from the old people have. When I was child I have hero and in my teenager I have another hero and now I have different hero. In short, On my life I change my hero many times by the times I became older.

Nonverbal Communication

       

         Most of people communication are nonverbal communication, Nonverbal communications are very important to person .According to the article" Different types ofnonverbal communication include facial expressions, gestures and posture"  by John Evans, the author report that movement and signals are an important way to communicate meaning without word. It`s well known that good communication is important for successful relationship .It is important to recognize our nonverbal communication. Also, I think that nonverbal communication and body language are powerful tool that can help us to connect with other. The way you listen, move, look and react tells us the other person care or not. When your nonverbal communication and body language match up with word you are saying that increase trust and support your word.

        

       In addition, the human face express countless emotions without saying any word.  Facial expression contain a lot of meaning such as happiness, sadness, anger, surprise, fear, and disgust. The way you move carry a wealth of information. When you put your hand in at your nick .it means you are afraid from something. Eyes contact are very important for nonverbal communication. The way you look to someone can mean many things, it shows your interest, affection, hostility, or attraction.

     

       We should improve our nonverbal communication skills to get success relationship with our family, friend, teacher, and even stranger.    

Video Game Violent

       One of the most important reasons for violent video games harmful effect is that violent video games increase. By exposure youth to video games, the violent video games enhance aggression and increase physical aggression toward other people. Physical aggression the behavior that attack people or hurt them physically such as fighting with other people. Also violent video games grow the aggressive behavior in both long time and short time. According to the article" Violent Video Games Promote Teen Aggression and Violence", Craig Anderson`s research shows that exposure teenager to violent video games promote the aggression behavior significantly.(www.eucation.com). Also violent video games increase the rate of among youth. After a while of playing violent video games youth believe that aggression is something normal. According to the article video games and violence, in 2007, student who aged between 12 to 18 32% of them became bullied, differentiate to 5% in 1999(ProCon.org).I remember one days when my children played violent video games, they had fight with each other after the playing.

      Another reason for violent video games harmful effects that video games have negative effect on the teenager empathy. Violent video games effect of teens behavior and manner. Also violent video games drop in prosaical behavior and empathy .Violent video games reduce the youth sharing and volunteering behavior in the society. Violent video games have harmful effect on youth thought about emotions and changing the teenager attitudes toward violence. In addition, by the time exposure to violent video games have a cumulative casual effect on teens thought about manner. According to" Violent Video Game Play Makes More Aggressive Kids article", shows that violent video games the impact teen's behavior and drop their manner (PreCon.org).